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Social Setup of the Pakhtun Society
Family
An attractive feature of the Pakhtun way of life is the joint
family system which signifies their deep love for the family's
solidarity and welfare. The desire of communal life emanates from a
consideration of economic security and integrity. All the family
members, even the married sons, live jointly in a house large enough to
separately accommodate each married couple under the authority of the
father who, as head of the family, manages the family affairs and
exercises an immense influence in his own domain.
All the earning hands of the family, married as well as un-married sons,
contribute their share of income to the common pool of resources. All
expenses on food, clothing, education, health, birth, marriages and
deaths are defrayed from this common fund. The mantle of authority falls
on the eldest son's shoulders after the death of the father or when old
age renders him unable to discharge his functions efficiently. The
system of Nikat (ancestral line) which regulates the shares of losses
and gains, debts and liabilities of each family, is the mainstay of
Pakhtun society. The internal management of the household rests with the
mother who exercises her authority within her own sphere of influence.
The joint family system, however, is gradually giving way to
individualistic trends under the impact of modern influences. It is
losing its hold, particularly on educated classes and well off sections.
Respect For Elders
The Pakhtun children are taught to show a great degree of respect to
their parents and elders. Senior members of the family, particularly
elders, command great respect. Parents are properly and reverently
looked after in old age and every effort is made to provide them with
all possible comforts. There is a famous Pashto maxim that "Paradise
lies under the feet of the parents" and Pakhtuns true to their faith
leave no stone un-turned in obtaining their blessings. It is generally
believed that parents' curses bring sorrows, miseries and hardships.
Sons and daughters, therefore, refrain from incurring the displeasure
and curses of their fathers and mothers.
The elder's opinion prevails in all important matters. Kashars or
youngsters of the community rise from their seats as a mark of respect
when an elderly person enters the Hujra. Youngsters are normally not
expected to talk or laugh loudly or smoke a cigarette or huqqa in the
presence of their elders. Even in tribal Jirgas the younger members of
the village are not allowed to speak. Everything is left to the
discretion of their elders.
Manners
The Pakhtuns have several ways of greeting and salutation. Strangers
passing on a road or thoroughfare exchange courtesies such as "Starrey
ma shey" (May you not be tired) and "Pa khair raghley" (welcome). This
is answered by "Khudai de mal sha" (May God be with you), "Pa khair
ossey" (May you live in peace) and "Ma khwaraigey" (May you not be
poor). The Pakhtuns usually embrace their friends and relatives when
they meet them after a long absence and warmly receive each other by a
hearty handshake. This is followed by a train of questions about each
others' welfare like "Jorr yey" (Are you alright?), "Khushal yey" (Are
you happy?), "Takkrra yey" (Are you hale and hearty?) "Warra Zagga Jorr
di" (Are your family members hale and hearty?) and "Pa Kor key Khairyat
de" (Is every body well at home?).
A visitor entering a village Hujra is greeted with the traditional
slogan of "Har Kala Rasha" (May you always come) and he replies "Har
kala ossey" (May you always abide). Friends while parting commit each
other to the care of God by saying "Pa makha de kha" (May you reach your
destination safely), and "Da khudai pa aman" (To the protection of God).
When meeting a pious or an elderly person, a Pakhtun bows a little and
keeps his hands on his chest as a mark of veneration. When talking about
a deceased person, they often say "Khudai de obakhi" (May God forgive
him). If a man suddenly appears at the time of conversation between some
or more persons about him, they immediately exclaim "Omar de ziyat de,
Oss mo yadawalay" (You have a long life, we were just talking about
you). The Pakhtuns very often use the word "Inshaallah" (God Willing)
"Ka Khudai ta manzura wee" "Ka Khair Wee" (if all goes well) when they
promise to accomplish a task at a particular time.
Love Of Independence
One of the outstanding characteristics of the Pakhtuns, as gleaned from
their record, is their passionate love for freedom and violent
opposition to any infringement of their liberty. They have preserved
their liberty by the force of arms despite heavy odds. In spite of their
ignorance of military science, modern techniques of warfare, lack of
sophisticated weapons and material resources, they held their own
against every invader, including the British who were one of the most
powerful empire builders of their time.
Though at times Pakhtuns were temporarily subdued, they could never be
held in permanent subjugation or tied in the shackles of bondage. They
offered staunch resistance to any one who ventured to encroach upon
their liberty and refused to submit tamely to the position of the
vanquished. "Their character, organization and instincts" says David
Ditcher, "have made them independent and strongly democratic, so much so
that even their own leaders have little real control over them".
It is one of the striking features of Pakhtuns in general and Afridis in
particular that they give up their individual disputes and tribal feuds,
sink their differences temporarily according to the exigencies of the
time, form a Sarishta or take a unanimous decision for collective action
and fight shoulder to shoulder against their common foe. This most
remarkable trait was duly noticed by Edward E. Oliver. "The most
democratic and dis-united people among themselves", he says,
"un-controlled and often un-controllable even by their own chiefs, all
the clans have uniformly joined in hostility to us whenever opportunity
offered".
The Pakhtuns are fond of firearms which they possess for their personal
protection, honor and defense of their homeland. "They are never without
weapon when grazing their cattle, while driving beasts of burden; when
tilling the soil, only their dots. The love of firearms is a trait in
their character, they will enlist or work in order to get the
wherewithal and buy matchlock or rifle, the latter being preferred; and
if an Afridi at the end of his service has not sufficient to buy one, he
makes no scruples of walking off with his rifle and ammunition". Being
gallant and courageous they love to join the army principally to show
their mettle on the battle field.
Unsurpassed in vigil and marksmanship every Pakhtun is almost an army in
himself. The writings of many British officers bear testimony to their
magnificent fighting qualities, especially of the Afridis, Mahsuds and
Waziris who are described by them as "careful Skirmishers" and the best
guerilla force of the world in their own hills. The Frontier, as a
matter of fact, became the best training ground and an excellent school
of soldiering for the British Officers for about a century. It was on
account of their martial qualities that they are looked upon as the
"Sword arm of Pakistan".
Among redoubtable Pakhtun adventurers stand out in bold relief the names
of Ajab Khan Afridi, Multan Khan, Kamal Khan, Ajab Khan Yousafzai,
Dilasa Khan, Chakkai and Jaggar.
Religious Life
By and large the Pakhtuns are deeply religious. The land of these
highlanders has experienced the influence of religious leaders for a
long time, who, after making their way into the mountains aroused the
religious sentiments of the local people and rallied them under the
banner of Islam against the enemies of their religion. Besides less
known divines, who occasionally sprang up and played their short but
spectacular part on the stormy stage of the Frontier, the names of
Akhund of Swat, Hadda Mullah, Haji Sahib of Turangzai, Mullah Powindah,
Faqeer of Ipi, Mullah Syed Akbar or Aka Khel Mullah, Gud Mullah, Lewaney
(mad) Mullah, Karbogha Mullah, Faqir of Alingar and Chaknawar Mullah
also figure prominently in the religio-political history of the
Frontier. Saints and divines exercised immense spiritual and political
influence over their minds and it was on account of their religious zeal
and fervor that they proclaimed a holy war (Jihad) against infidels.
They fought a number of battles against the Sikhs under the leadership
of Syed Ahmed Barelvi Shaheed and Syed Ismael Shaheed and later under
the influence of the above noted religious divines and stalwarts.
Owing to their strong religious feelings for their brethren-in-faith,
the Turks, a large number of Pakhtuns, especially the Afridis, deserted
in large number from British army in France, Mesopotamia and Egypt in
the First World War. They were averse to fighting against their
co-religionists and that was why the General Officer Commanding in
Chief, Egyptian Expeditionary Force, was compelled in November, 1917 to
repatriate three Indian officers and 202 other ranks and all Frontier
Pakhtuns of 58th Rifles from Egypt and recommended ban on their
recruitment on account of their "bad behavior".
The Pakhtuns are punctilious in offering their daily prayers and
observance of fast during the month of Ramazan. Writing about the
devotion of Pakhtuns to their religion, Major H. B. Edwards says,
"whatever occupation they might be engaged in, whether business or
pleasure, it was always interrupted at the hour of prayers". He adds,
"in my tent, which was always full of people concerned in some case or
other, they would break off the conversation, and ask to be excused for
a moment; then take a scarf and spreading it in the corner towards
Mecca, devoutly commence their genuflections". Each Pakhtun village has
a mosque in which a Mullah or Pesh-Imam leads the daily prayers and
imparts religious education to the village children. The Mullah is
served free meals and he receives Zakat and alms from village folk. Alms
giving and Zakat is common and Haj is performed by men of means. Alms
giving is especially resorted during adversities and food is also served
to the poor. On the occasion of Eid, Barawafat, Muharram, Shab-e-Barat
and certain other religious day rich food is prepared to invoke the
blessings of Allah.
The holy men, Saints, Sayyids and Mians are held in deep reverence. They
give amulets and charms to the people which are considered to be
antidote to illness, disease, calamity and evil influences. They are
shown utmost respect and their hands are kissed in acknowledgement of
their piety. The practice of Piri-Murid (Teacher-student relation in
Sufism) is also common. A Pir or religious preceptor guides his Murid or
disciple in his spiritual progress. For this purpose he takes a Bai'at
(affiliates himself) at the hands of the Pir who enjoys the reputation
of holy man and has the ability to guide him in establishing commission
with God. Sometimes lunatics and impostors are also mistaken for saintly
persons. But the younger generation equipped with modern education and
imbued with the spirit of enlightenment, is immune from such influences.
Shrines
Being orthodox Muslims with strong religious susceptibilities the
Pakhtuns hold holy men and their shrines in high esteem. The devotees
pay frequent visits to shrines and enter the precincts bare-footed and
entreat the saint's blessings for the restoration of falling health,
wealth and success in certain other ventures. The more a saint enjoys
reputation, the more his tomb attracts devotees. Certain ziarats
(shrines) have a special reputation for the cure of specific ailments
and are credited with certain other virtues. For example prayers are
offered for the birth of a male child at Ziarat Kaka Sahib and Pir Baba
and visits to several other shrines are considered effective for curing
of madness, rheumatism, dog bites, hysteria and certain other ailments.
The visitors and devotees, particularly women bring back a handful of
salt or gur which is believed to be a cure for illness. For Muslims,
Friday is a sacred day and visits to the shrines are paid on Thursday or
the night preceding Friday. Pakhtuns, like all good and devout Muslims,
raise their hands and offer Fateha while passing by a graveyard.
Shrines are the safest places in tribal areas and the tribesmen keep
their articles in them without any fear of pilfering. No one dares to
lay hands on any article kept in a shrine due to the sanctity of the
place and possible wrath of the buried saint. Reputable shrines are
often under the charge of a care-taker (known as Munjawar in Pashto and
Mutawali in Urdu) or a fakir who lives on the premises and collects
donations both in cash and kind from the devotees to provide water and
food to future visitors (langar). The trees around a shrine are never
cut and the birds enjoy complete safety. The observance of Urs or annual
festival at various Ziarats is also common. The devotees attend these
gatherings annually for two days in large number and engage themselves
in Zikar or religious meditation.
Eid-ul-Fitr or Kamkay Akhtar and Eid-ul-Azha or Loe or Star Akhtar are
the two main festivals which are observed with great zeal. In some
places a fair is held on the Eid day while at others on the day
following the Eid. The boys make large bonfires called Katamirs and
kindle them on a hill top in the evening, preceding the Eid Day. Young
and old alike, wear new clothes on Eid Day, and the entire area wears a
festive look just as Christmas is celebrated by the Christians.
Moharram and Eid-e-Milad-un-Nabi or `Bara Wafat' are also observed with
deep reverence and due solemnity. Pious men among the Pakhtuns engage
themselves in prayers particularly during Lailatul Qadar or "the night
of power". On this night the Holy Quran was revealed to the Holy Prophet
of Islam. The night of Lailatul Qadar has been described in the Holy
Quran as better than a thousand months. Muslim jurists differ in their
opinion regarding the date of its occurrence. Some of them are of the
opinion that this night falls on 21st or 23rd of Ramadan while others
believe that it falls on 27th or 29th. However, all the doctors of
Mohammadan Law agree that Lailatul Qadar falls during the last ten days
of the holy month of Ramazan and every prayer is accepted on this
auspicious occasion.
Tobey Weestal
After a persistent dry spell when drought conditions prevail, the people
of the villages headed by the Mullahs come out to the fields and offer
prayers, at least for three consecutive days. This is called "Tobhay
Westal" or supplicating God for rain. Besides, children of the village
come out in streets and collect wheat, maize and barley from the houses
of the village. While collecting grain the children chant in a chorus:-
Ka cha ra karruloo ghanam - Khudai ba war kerri sra zaman (God in turn
will give sons to anyone who gives wheat), Ka cha ra karraloo joowar,
Khudai ba war karri war pa war (God in turn will give sons one after
another who gives maize) Ka cha ra Karreley Orbashey - Khudaya ta war
Sara Kha shey (May God bless those who give us barley). After the
collection of grain the children cook it and after serving it to the
poor they pray for rains. They also go to the nearby graveyard and
sprinkle water on graves.
Supersitions
Doud Dastoor or customs and traditions are in fact the product of
historical, geographical and economic conditions. Evolved in process of
time, social usages become the guiding principles of day to day life and
all individuals living in a particular society feel bound to abide by
them.
It is a common phenomenon that customary laws of the masses are not free
from religious and even superstitious influences. In Pakhtun customs at
least some of them are also not immune from such influences. The use of
amulets and talismans has already been mentioned. Besides, strange ways
and means are devised by them to protect themselves from the evil eye
and evil effects of Jinni and demons. Pakhtun women believe that evil
spirits cannot come near a newly born infant if a knife or a dagger is
put near its pillow or at its head. Therefore, they always keep a sharp
edged weapon besides the infant's pillow to ward off evil spirits. The
child may be sick and suffering from diarrhoea, dyspepsia or any other
malaise, but the old grandmother will ascribe it to the influence of
some evil spirits. Instead of taking him to a doctor's clinic for
treatment, she mutters charms and throws red hot metal in cold water to
scare away the evil spirit or a possible evil eye. This, she believes,
is the only remedy to cure the infant's illness. And if these charms do
not work, she is convinced that the child is suffering from throat
trouble. She takes him to some experienced man or woman of the locality
for raising its uvula. This, in Pashto called is Jabai Porta Kawal.
The raising of uvula is common all over the tribal areas. Some raise it
by putting the index finger inside the child's mouth while others put a
handkerchief around child's neck and give him a few jolts after
muttering of charms. Not contented with this the mother will put amulets
(Tawiz) round the child's neck as a protection against the evil eye or
Bad Nazar. The amulets written by a pious man and woven in a string are
suspended round the child's neck. Some of these amulets are sewn in a
cloth, some are wrapped in a leather or silver leaf inset with costly
stones, depending on the financial position of the child's parents.
Sometimes a black spot (Kalak) is put on the child's forehead in an
attempt to protect him against the evil eye. In certain clans a child is
deliberately kept dirty and ill clad for warding off the evil spirits.
The claws of a leopard or a lion are also sometimes hung around their
necks. The old grandmother also believes in charms. She takes a handful
of wild rue (called Spailanay in Pashto) which is considered a panacea
for warding off a malignant eye. She puts some wild rue on red hot coals
and starts revolving the bowl round the ailing child while chanting some
magical incantations. This is called "Nazar Matawal" or removing effects
of the evil eye. After the wild rue is burnt it is kept in the door way
of the house with smoke emitting from it. Sometimes an old woman takes a
few red chillies, revolves them round a sick persons's head and then
puts the pods in the fire. There is a famous maxim in Pashto that the Da
ranz ranzoor raghaigee, Da stargo ranzoor na raghaigee", i.e. `an ailing
person may recover from illness but ailment caused by an evil eye cannot
be cured'. On other occasions a goat or lamb is slaughtered and the
blood of the sacrificed animal is sprinkled on the door or wall of the
house to ward off possible natural calamities. But as a result of the
general rise in education, the educated tribesmen no longer believe in
such superstitions. They take their children straight to a doctor's
clinic in case of illness.
When a baby is carried out of the house, a veil is placed over its face
to protect it against the possible affect of an evil eye. Some men and
women are notorious for a malignant or evil eye. It is generally
believed that their looks can break even a hard stone into pieces.
Similarly mothers desist from carrying infants while visiting a house
where death has occurred because of fear of Bad Ghag or evil voice. They
also have recourse to some other expedients to guard the child against
evil spirits.
Besides this, several other superstitions are prevalent in Pakhtun
society. For example, the cawing of the crow on a house wall or top of a
nearby tree is considered as a sign of the impending arrival of some
guests. Similarly, falling of flour on the ground at the time of
kneading is interpreted to mean that some guests or visitors can be
expected. The howling of dogs at night is considered a bad omen,
indicating the coming sickness or death of some one in the family.
The winking of the right eye lid is taken to mean a happy tiding and
throbbing of a left eye lid as a bad omen. In case of a hiccup, it is
generally believed that an absent friend or relative is remembering.
While removing shoes, if perchance, one shoe lands on top of the other,
it is thought that the person would undertake a journey in the near
future. If the right palm starts itching, it is believed that money will
come into his hands. On the contrary if the left hand itches it is
generally believed that the person will lose some money. The crowing of
a hen, which is quite un-usual, is considered a bad omen and it is
killed the moment it crows.
The sight of a dirty man or a sweeper early in the morning is considered
un-lucky. Similarly a distinction is made between fortunate and
unfortunate days. Certain days are considered lucky for journeys while
others are believed to be un-lucky. If a person dies at a place other
than his village or home town, a black hen is slaughtered before the
engine of a car or bus at the time of taking the corpse to its native
place for burial. Similarly a black hen is slaughtered in between the
fore-legs of the horse or mare of the tonga in which the corpse is
carried. The tribal Pakhtuns refrain from incurring the ill-will of Pirs
and Fakirs and even men possessed with an evil tongue called Tor Jabay.
The speech of Tor Jabay is considered more deadly than a lethal weapon
and his curses may become harbingers of misfortune.
The Pakhtuns generally rely on dreams. The sight of a white or green
object, in a dream, is considered auspicious while black objects, fire
and floods etc are considered inauspicious. They have a strong belief in
destiny. Fate is considered as absolute and un-changeable.
Some strange notions are found among Pakhtuns about the "Whirlwind of
dust which spins abut in autumn". It is generally believed that the
whirlwind is caused by a Jin. Similarly when a storm blows for two or
three days, the Pakhtuns are heard saying that some innocent man might
have been brutally assassinated somewhere. A child born feet first is
called "Sakki". It is generally believed that "a few gentle kicks from
one, so born", can relieve pain in the back. During the winter when it
rains continuously for a week or so, the children erect dolls made of
flour clay called "Ganjyan". The ganjyan are considered a means of
stopping the rain. The taking of fal or omen from some religious book is
commonly believed and practiced. On Shab-e-Barat the village women
assemble in a house. Each woman puts a ring, comb or some other object
in an empty pitcher and a small boy or girl is deputed to take them out
one by one. At the time of taking out an article, a woman recites a few
verses such as "Ma jagh kawa ma spara, Khudai ba dar karri pa tayyara"
i.e. God will provide you with food even without ploughing fields. The
better the verse in composition, the more it is considered auspicious.
In matters pertaining to superstitions Pakhtuns now do not believe much
in fabulous tales due to the general rise in education. But the
illiterate, particularly those who live in inaccessible hilly tracts,
are comparatively more superstitious than the people living in the
plains. Charms and omens are generally believed in by the un-educated
masses, especially the women.
Though there are several references to the existence of spirits in the
Holy Quran and Ahadith, yet belief in genii is considered as a
superstition by almost all the European writers. It would not be without
interest for the readers to know some thing about Pakhtun's belief in
Jins. The Pakhtuns believe in genii, evil spirits and Churail etc. The
genii, it is believed, can assume the form of a human being, beast,
animal or of anything they want to. The genii are stated to be of two
kinds: believers and non-believers and good and bad. If a good tempered
Jin takes a fancy to a person, it will attend upon him like a faithful
and devoted friend, ready to render him any service even at odd hours.
The genii or fairies called Khapairay in Pashto are particularly known
for their friendliness and there are innumerable tales of fairies
sincerely devoted to their male friends. These creatures, which are
described as resplendently handsome, help their friends in making
fortunes. It has almost become proverbial about a poor man prospering in
life that he has drunk a fairy's milk. Any person possessed by a Jin is
believed to have the power of discovering stolen articles and predicting
the future. When asked to give information about a certain object, he or
she will excite himself or herself in a state of hysteria or induce a
trance to make the predictions.
A man acting like a lunatic is believed to have been possessed by a Jin.
It is a common belief that the Jin possesses the victim's tongue and
controls all his actions. When it occurs, a Sayyid, Mian or a learned
Mullah credited with the power of exorcising the evil spirits is
immediately sent for. He recites a few verses from the Holy Quran and
conjures the Jin to depart. The exorcist addresses the Jin in a
threatening language to leave, if soft words and entreaty prove of no
avail. When the battle of hot words does not produce the desired effect,
then the exorcist writes a charm on a piece of paper and burns it under
the afflicted man's nose. Recourse is also made to certain other methods
to force the Jin to depart. Sometimes the afflicted person's hand is
held in a firm grip by a strong man. He presses it as hard as he can
till the patient starts crying out in agony and pain and appeals for
mercy. It is believed that the Jin speaks through the patient's tongue.
The exorcist, therefore, asks it to leave and swear by Prophet Sulaiman
(Solomon), who is believed to be the king of all genii, not to come
again. Sometimes short wooden sticks are put in between the patient's
fingers and his hand is pressed hard. If this device also fails then the
exorcist places a frying pan on the fire with some ghee (melted butter)
in it and throws a charm in the boiling ghee to make the Jin flee or
die.
Chilla
It is a common belief that a man can obtain the services of genii by
means of talismans or certain invocations. For this purpose he undergoes
the rigors of a chilla for a period of forty days. Chilla is of two
kinds: spiritual and temporal. The spiritual chilla is practiced for the
purification of the soul whereas the temporal chilla aims at making
wordily gains by means of controlling genii. During the period when
anybody is undergoing the arduous task of chilla, he remains in a state
of meditation, keeps himself aloof from the people and chooses an
un-inhabited or deserted place, for self-mortification. He follows his
Pir's instructions both in letter and spirit. By sitting within a circle
(`Hisar') drawn around himself he remains vigilant and contents himself
with little food and water barely able to sustain him. There is the
possibility of his becoming mad, if he moves out of the circle contrary
to his Pir's instructions or frightened out by the resisting Jin. It is
said that during the last few days of Chilla genii appear before the
probationer in horribly hideous shapes to frighten and lure him out of
the circle. If he, succeeds in completing the prescribed course without
falling a prey to the genii's insidious temptations, he gains control
over them and the leader of the genii appears in person before the man
for carrying out his orders and all the genii, old and young alike,
follow suit.
Character
- "The Pathan has been dubbed cruel, treacherous, miserly and, in
fact, every epithet of an opprobrious nature has been showered on
his devoted head at one time or another by men who were either
incapable of seeing things from the Pathan point of view, and of
making allowances for his short comings, or who were so hidebound by
the humanity mongering sentimentality, which passes today for the
hall mark of liberal mind that they shudderingly dismissed the
Pathan from their thoughts (presumably with pious ejaculations) as
an un-reclaimable savage".
The Hon. Arnold Keppel
The character of the Pakhtuns has always been a favorite
theme of writers. The detractors of Pakhtuns have painted them in the
darkest colors by describing them as savages, brutes, uncouth, cruel and
treacherous, while the sympathetic writers have praised their manly
bearing, open-heartedness and inherent dignity. To the latter set of
historians they are not as barbarous as depicted. Their otherwise black
character is studded with many noble virtues and their vices are the
"Vices common to the whole of the community". Mr. Temple described them
as noble savages "not without some tincture of virtue and generosity".
The spirit of adventure and enterprise is characteristic of this hardy
race of hill men. They have their own sense of dignity and would not
submit to injustice or insult even at the risk of their own life. The
reason of blood feuds is not their vindictive nature or blood
thirstiness but a spirit of liberty and the will to uphold justice,
defend the right and avenge the wrong. Pride of race, consciousness of
natural rights and intolerance of injustice are the remarkable traits of
the Pakhtun character. "The pride", says H.W. Bellew, "of the Afghans is
a marked feature of their national character. They eternally boast of
their descent, their prowess in arms and their independence and cap it
all by "am I not a Pakhtun."
Tall, muscular and healthy, Pakhtuns are fond of sports and war alike.
Edward E. Oliver's evidence of Pakhtun character is worth quoting. "He
is", he says "undoubtedly brave to rashness, sets no value upon life,
either his own or anyone else's. Trained from youth to feats of
strength, endowed with wonderful power of endurance, he commands the
admiration of most Englishmen".
Summing up the character of Pakhtuns the Hon Mount Stuart Elphinstone
wrote, "they are fond of liberty, faithful to their friends, kind to
their dependents, hospitable, brave, hardy, frugal, laborious and
prudent".
Status Of Women
Pakhtun women do not observe the customary purdah but they do wear Burqa
while paying visits to cities or distant places beyond their locality.
In their outdoor functions, they however, cover the face and body with a
Chaddar (sheet) or Dopatta. Why the tribal women do not wear burqa or
observe purda as invogue in urban areas, is easy to explain.
Firstly the people of one stock bound together by common ties of flesh
and blood dwell in villages. Secondly, the standard of morality is very
high in Pakhtun society and cases of moral turpitude are almost un-heard
of. Moreover, the Pakhtuns are so jealous of the modesty and sanctity of
their women that they cannot tolerate even appreciation of the beauty or
other attributes of their women by an outsider or stranger. They
consider such an admiration as an insult to their sense of honor.
Immoral practices, especially adultery, elopement, amorous advances,
infidelity and illicit liaison between man and woman are put down with a
heavy hand and death is a normal penalty in such cases. The guilty pair
is generally killed if caught flagrante delicto. It is because of such
deterrent punishment that no one dare cast an evil eye on a Pakhtun
woman without peril to his life.
According to the Pakhtuns code of ethics, strangers refrain from
loitering about un-necessarily when women set out for fetching water or
bringing in grass or wood etc. They also desist from speaking to a woman
and similarly it is considered indecent on the part of a woman to talk
to a stranger except when she is in dire need of his help. "A woman or
girl above ten years old", says Robert Warburton who served as Political
Agent in Khyber Agency for eighteen years "is never permitted to address
any male not connected with her by relationship. A stranger has always
to be avoided, and if by any chance a woman comes across one in a narrow
lane or road, she generally covers up her face and stands with her back
towards him until he has passed". It is also one of the etiquettes of
the Pakhtuns to lower their eyes, gaze at the ground and step aside from
the path when a woman comes across their way.
Respect for women is also evident from the fact that she is not
interfered with in case of tribal hostilities, blood feuds, village
affrays or brawls. During the prosecution of feuds women are exempt from
reprisals. It is considered below the dignity of a Pakhtun to fire at
women and according to tribal customs they are at liberty to supply
food, water and ammunition to their men engaged in firing at a hill top
or entrenchments outside the village. "During the prosecution of feud,"
says L. White King, "it is generally understood that women and children
under 12 are exempt from reprisals and are free to pursue their ordinary
avocations without interference." In this connection Merk remarks that
"during the blood feuds it is the first aim of each party to gain
possession of the water supply of its opponents, and if it is under fire
of the enemy, women who are theoretically never fired at, have to
undertake the dangerous task of bringing water to the beleaguered
garrison". In the words of Mountstuart Elphinston "no quarter is given
to men in the wars, it is said that the Vizeerees would even kill a male
child that falls into their hands, but they never molest women, and if
one of the sex wanders from her caravan, they treat her with kindness,
and send guides to escort her to her tribe".
Though some writers have described tribal women as hewers of wood and
drawers of water or only an `economic asset', they are not socially as
inferior as depicted. No doubt, they work hard but it is only a division
of labor between man and woman. Though the husband plays a dominant role
and the wife a subordinate one in a tribal society, this does not mean
that women do not enjoy any respect. They duly exercise authority and
influence in their own spheres. As a daughter she is loved, as a wife
respected and as a mother venerated. There is a famous saying of the
Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) that heaven lies under the feet of
mother, and Pakhtun hold his mother in high esteem. She has a great deal
of say in her domestic affairs. She controls the household finances and
wields an over-whelming influence over her sons, daughters and
daughters-in-laws.
Besides household work and superintendence of children, the Pakhtun code
of ethics enjoins upon women not to burst into laughter in the presence
of strangers or persons with whom they are not closely related; not to
address their husbands by name, nor to speak loudly, and avoid being
heard beyond the four walls of the house. The wives were required in the
past to show the utmost regard for their husbands, remain in attendance
while the husband was taking his meals and walk a few paces behind the
husband while he went out of the house. There is a famous saying that
there are two places eminently suited for a woman, one is her own house
and the other the grave. But all this does not hold good any more. The
status of woman has undergone a remarkable change during the past five
decades, principally due to education and economic prosperity. Thanks to
the efforts of Pakistan government, big strides have been taken in the
field of education. At present more than three thousand educational
institutions are functioning in the length and breath of tribal areas
with 2,42,862 students on roll. These include 2,13,021 male and 29,841
female students. The spread of education has immensely broadened their
outlook. Women are no longer considered inferior and they enjoy the
privilege of exerting their healthy and loving influence in domestic
spheres.
It may be recalled that there was a strong prejudice against female
education, particularly in rural areas before the creation of Pakistan.
The conservative and orthodox sections of the society, felt shy of
sending their daughters to schools. It was considered disgraceful to
send daughters out of doors, and there was a growing feeling that
education other than religious, would have a baneful influence on the
mind of the young girls. The parents were apprehensive that female
education would provide an opportunity to young girls to write amatory
letters to young men. But these prejudices against female education no
longer exist. Times have greatly changed after Independence and a
pleasant revolution has taken place in the ideas of the Pakhtuns about
female education.
Tribal women are hardy, industrious, devoted and trust-worthy. They do
the entire household work and also help their husbands in the fields.
They faithfully stand by their husbands both in weal and woe and resist
every foul temptation. "Neither would I have it inferred from the
anecdote" says Lt. Arthur Conolly, "that the Afghans ill treat their
women; on the contrary, they are both proud and fond of them. Those who
dwell in the country have such confidence in their women that if they
absent themselves from their homes, they leave their wives in charge of
their establishment and a married woman may without a shadow of scandal
entertain a traveler who happens to arrive at her husband's tent during
his absence".
Toora (literally Sword, but means bravery) and Marrana (chivalry and
courage) are considered essential traits of Pakhtun character and women
feel proud of husbands possessing such laudable attributes. They possess
courage themselves and admire such qualities in others. Even in their
folk songs they exhort their lovers to display bravery and courage on
the field instead of running away like cowards. The following Pashto
couplet and hundred others best illustrate their earnest desire that
their near and dear ones should perform acts of valor and heroism on the
battlefield:
- May you come riddled with bullets,
The news of your dishonour, cowardice
Writing about the courage of Pakhtun women Mrs Starr who
served as a staff nurse in Mission Hospital for a number of years says,
"the women are not a bit behind the men in pluck. I remember one,
typical of many, who, though unable to move and unlikely to live owing
to a severe bullet wound, invariably replied to any enquiry on my part,
"I am well; I am all right". See, she is an Afridi, said her man
proudly." Pakhtuns go to any length in defense of their women folk and
their history is replete with many daring examples. One such example was
furnished by Ajab Khan Afridi, the hero of the famous Miss Ellis drama
on the Frontier. In March 1923, the Frontier Constabulary, with the help
of regular British troops, raided Ajab Khan's village in Dara Adam Khel.
The troops with scant regard for the sanctity of women, searched his
house and according to certain reports women were subjected to search
and insult. This news beat across his mind like a thunder-bolt and Ajab
Khan's anger knew no bounds. Infuriated by the alleged insulting
behavior of the British troops, he vowed to wipe out the insult with
insult and retrieve his honor by a similar action. He raided the enemy's
houses and succeeded in lifting Miss Ellis from the heart of Kohat
cantonment. He, however, treated the girl honorably and released her
after redemption of his honor.
Pakhtun women wear simple dress. It consists of a Partoog (Trousers),
Qamees (Shirt) and a Dupatta (chaddar or scarf). Old women prefer loose
and baggy trousers, long shirts with wider sleeves and colored clothes.
Fashionable clothes and footwear are now becoming popular among the new
generation owing to constant intermingling of the tribesmen with the
inhabitants of cities. New dresses are becoming common, as tribal girls
are not averse to modern comforts and fashions. With the march of time,
old heavy silver ornaments have been discarded and replaced by modern
and delicate ones. Pakhtun women use a variety of jeweler such as
pendants, bracelets and necklaces. The pendants include Paizwan, Nata or
Natkai (large nose rings), Chargul, Peeta and Maikhakay (small nose
ornaments), Wallai, Jarmootey, Dewadi and Duroona (large ear rings), and
Teek worn on the forehead. The bracelets comprise of Wakhi, Bavoo,
Karrey and Bangri or bangles. Haar and Taweezoona may be mentioned among
necklaces. Besides the use of silver ornaments called Sangley (Pazaib)
worn round feet near ankle, Ogey or neclet, Zanzeer or chain and finger
rings, are also in common use.
The Paizwan is suspended below the nostril edge. Chargul and Nata are
worn on the right side of the outer part of the nose and Maikhakai and
Peeta, comparatively smaller ornaments, are worn on the left side of the
nose. Haar and Taweezoona consist of three to five flat silver pieces
about one and half inch square each, are worn over the breast. The
Zanzeer, a silver ornament about ten inches in length and imbedded with
shining stones, is also suspended from the shirt collar on the breast.
Dispute Settlement
Hura
The Hujra which represents the sociable character of the Pukhtoons is a
useful institution and it plays a pivotal role in their daily life. It
serves as a club, "dormitory, guest house and a place for ritual and
feastings". It is a centre for social activities as well as a Council
Hall for the settlement of family and inter-tribal disputes. It is used
as a male dormitory where bachelors of the village sleep. It is a guest
house where guests are jointly entertained by village folk and a
community centre for betrothals, marriages and social functions. Even
condolences are offered in the Hujra on the demise of a person and here
sympathy is expressed with the bereaved family. It is a place of public
resort where village elders and youngsters get-together in their leisure
hours to discuss tribal, national and international affairs and matters
of mutual interest. "The guests and strangers are fed and sheltered free
of all charges in the village Hujras".
The Hujra and Jirga are inter related. It is not only a meeting place of
the villagers but it is also used as a platform for the Jirga's meetings
where important decisions are made and family quarrels and tribal
disputes are amicably resolved. In some places the Hujra happens to be
the property of one man but in tribal areas it is a common property.
Hujra, hubble bubble (Cheelam) and Rabab (String instrument) and an
earthen pitcher are inseparable and are considered its part and parcel.
Though the hubble bubble still retains its old place yet the music of
Rabab with the accompaniment of the pitcher is vanishing and their place
is being taken up by radio, transistor and television sets.
The Hujras are generally well fortified. They have one or two towers
with a loopholed parapet for the purpose of defense of the village and
firing down and along the wall in case of an outbreak of hostilities.
The youngsters of the village in general and bachelors in particular
sleep in the Hujra to guard the village in case of blood feuds. The
Hujra usually consists of two or three rooms with adjacent veranda and a
courtyard. A number of bedsteads or charpaees, pillows and quilts and
praying rugs available in Hujra for the guests.
Jirga
- "A mass meeting of the elders of the whole of the Afridi tribe,
for instance, would correspond very much to the old `Shiremote' of
the Saxon heptarchy; and, indeed, there is more in the simile than
one would expect at first glance, for the democratic spirit that is
so characteristic a feature in the gradual growth of English customs
finds its counterpart in the spirit of liberty and right of free
action that is one of the most cherished prerogatives of the Pathan
tribesmen, be he ever so humble". The Hon. Arnold Kepple
Democracy is not alien to the genius of the Pukhtoons,
as they are carrying on their typical and rudimentary form of government
on democratic principles since times immemorial. A unique feature of
tribal life is the Jirga system, a council or assembly of tribal elders
which closely resembles the Athenian democracy of the City States of
ancient Greece. This participatory sort of democracy was practiced by
the Pukhtoons long before Locke, Rouseau and other eminent philosophers
expounded their theories about democracy.
Pukhtoonwali is the code of ethics of the Pukhtoons, the Jirga their
Parliament or National Assembly and intrepidity and frankness an
essential trait of their character. An atmosphere of equality pervades
in tribal area and even a poor man dressed in rags considers himself
equal to his adversary or his rich compatriot. This spirit is well
reflected in their Jirga system, which, like the ancient Greek
democratic institutions signifies their love for democracy.
The Jirga of today also plays an important and constructive role in
solving the tribal matters. It is an authority for settling disputes and
dispensing even-handed justice to all and sundry irrespective of their
social status, influence and wealth. All matters including the question
of peace and war within tribal limits, fall within the purview of the
Jirga. It consists of the leading Maliks and tribal elders. There are no
hard and fast rules for the selection of Jirga members. All tribal
elders Speen Geeri or (grey-beards) are considered eligible for its
membership and each one of them has a right to speak and freely express
his opinion. However, Jirgas generally consist of persons known for
their honesty and integrity. The Jirga exercises both executive and
judicial roles and settles all disputes pertaining to the distribution
of land, property, blood feuds, blood money and other important
inter-tribal affairs on the basis of tribal conventions, traditions and
principles of justice. It performs judicial functions while settling a
dispute and discharges police functions when a threat to peace and
tranquility or danger to the life and property exists within tribal
limits.
The Jirga usually deals with inter-tribal affairs and serves as an
instrument for dispensing speedy and cheap justice. After careful
consideration, the Jirga decides the disputes on the basis of available
evidence.
The Jirga assembles in a Hujra or a village mosque or in an open field
outside the village under a shady tree. The Jirga members usually sit in
a circle without any presiding officer. This Round Table Conference like
a meeting without a chairman clearly reflects their love of democracy
and principle of equality irrespective of birth, wealth etc.
The Jirga conducts its proceedings in a simple manner. It interviews
both the parties, gives them a patient hearing and examines witnesses to
ascertain the facts of the case. After searching enquiries, the Jirga
makes every possible endeavour to find an impartial and acceptable
solution of the problem. The Jirga's decision is generally based on
Shariat, local traditions, justice and fair-play. In serious cases the
Jirga asks a party to clear itself of the imputed charge by an oath on
the Holy Quran. This seals the issue once for all, as the religion is an
extremely strong a force. It announces its decision only when the
majority of its members reach an agreement. But Jirga members deem it
prudent to obtain the consent of both the parties before making its
verdict public. This practice is known as WAAK or IKHTIAR (Power of
attorney). It is through the instrument of Waak or Ikhtiar that the
Jirga commits both the parties to abide by its decision. The Waak also
gives a binding force or some sort of legal cover to the Jirga's verdict
and it becomes incumbent upon the parties concerned to honor its
verdict.
The Jirga reprimands the party which refuses to accept its award. In
popular parlance this refusal to abide by the verdict of Jirga is called
MAKH ARAWAL (lit, turning of face) or expression of disapproval over the
party's behavior. In such a case the Jirga also resorts to punitive
measures for enforcement of its decision which includes fine in money
and burning of the houses of the recalcitrant members. It is because of
such stringent action that no one dares violate a Jirga's decision after
customary approval in the form of Waak or Ikhtiar. The Jirga does not
interfere in small and petty family disputes until a formal request is
made by a party to intercede on its behalf. Moreover in cases of grave
concern and serious nature, the Jirga assembles on its own and persuades
the parties concerned to submit to its award.
The Jirga meeting usually lasts for a day or two, but in some
complicated cases, its deliberations are prolonged to three or four
days. It remains, however, the utmost endeavour of the Jirga to settle
the dispute amicably as early as possible.
It is also one of the functions of the Jirga to ensure law and order and
lasting and durable peace in the area. Here the Jirga can be likened to
the General Assembly of the United Nations. As all peace loving nations
can become members of the General Assembly, similarly the Jirga is
composed of such elders who have stainless characters and spotless
records. As no decision is taken in the United Nations without a
majority vote, likewise the majority opinion prevails in the Jirga. But
here the similarity ends. The Jirga is more powerful as compared to the
General Assembly. It can easily enforce its decisions through a tribal
lashkar and the erring party or the dissident group is promptly
punished.
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